Hey there, fellow moms! I’m Amy Blankson, and today I want to chat about something that’s close to my heart: learning about and supporting your kids’ hairstyles, especially when they’re different from your own. This is often the case with biracial kids, who might have hair that’s a beautiful blend of textures and styles. As a mom, it’s important to approach this journey with humility, curiosity, and a growth mindset. Let’s dive into how we can empower our kids to love and care for their unique hair—and how this led to the creation of CurlWize.
As a mom, it’s natural to want to share everything we know with our kids. But when it comes to their hair, especially if it’s different from our own, it’s crucial to approach this with humility. Our kids might have different textures and needs than we’re familiar with, and that’s okay! Embracing a growth mindset means acknowledging that there’s always something new to learn.
Instead of feeling overwhelmed or frustrated, use this as an opportunity to learn alongside your child. Be open to discovering new techniques, products, and styles that work best for their hair. It’s a chance for both of you to grow and bond over this unique aspect of their identity.
Curiosity is key when exploring your child’s hair care needs. Take the time to research and understand different hair types, textures, and the best practices for each. Your curiosity will help you find solutions that work and show your child that you’re invested in their unique needs.
Encourage your child to explore their hair too. Whether they want to try different styles, colors, or textures, support their curiosity and creativity. This not only helps them express themselves but also fosters a positive relationship with their hair.
One of the most important aspects of caring for any type of hair, especially curly or textured hair, is being gentle during detangling. Use a wide-tooth comb or your fingers to carefully work through knots and tangles. Start from the tips and work your way up to avoid breakage and discomfort.
Make detangling a calming, enjoyable part of your routine. Use detangling sprays or conditioners to make the process smoother, and turn it into a bonding time with your child. Remember, patience and gentleness go a long way in keeping their hair healthy and minimizing stress.
Your child’s hair is as unique as they are, and it’s important to empower them to discover what works best for their individual needs. Encourage them to try different styles, products, and techniques. From curly to straightened, highlights to hair chalk, braids to extensions—let them explore and enjoy the versatility of their hair.
My philosophy has always been to help Ana love her hair and all the cool things it can do. Whether she wants to rock her natural curls, experiment with straightening, or add some fun highlights, I’ve been there to support her every step of the way. This approach not only helps them appreciate their hair but also builds their confidence and creativity.
Seeing Ana’s journey inspired us to create CurlWize, a platform dedicated to helping others navigate their hair care adventures. CurlWize is all about celebrating the diversity of curly and textured hair, providing useful information, and building a supportive community. We wanted to share the tools and resources that made Ana’s journey enjoyable and empowering, so others could benefit from them too.
Our goal with CurlWize is to make it easier for both parents and kids to find accurate, practical hair care advice and to foster a love for natural hair. By providing a space where people can learn, share, and grow together, we hope to make the journey of embracing and caring for curly hair a little bit smoother and a lot more fun.
Caring for your child’s unique hair can be a wonderful adventure filled with learning, creativity, and bonding. Approach this journey with an open heart, a curious mind, and a gentle touch. Empower your child to love their hair and explore all the amazing things it can do.
At CurlWize, we’re here to support you and your child every step of the way. Let’s celebrate the beauty and versatility of curly hair, and enjoy the journey of discovering what makes it truly special. Here’s to embracing and loving every curl and coil!
Warmly,
Amy Blankson
